No BS What Would It Take
Translate a clear goal into its real costs, then choose the life it requires
- Difficulty
- Moderate
- Time to result
- ~days to results
- Steps
- 5
- Confidence
- 99%
No BS What Would It Take turns a broad dream into a decision about concrete work and lifestyle. First make the target measurable: specify the output, quantity, audience or result, and deadline. Then suspend the reflexive reasons it cannot happen and ask what producing each component would literally require. List time, money, capability, and sacrifices in enough detail to expose the real life behind the ambition. Finally ask whether you are willing to make those trade-offs. A yes becomes an actionable plan. A no is not failure; it is evidence that the stated goal does not lead to the life you want. The framework therefore evaluates both feasibility and desirability.
Origin
Lisa and Tom Bilyeu use this game when a goal triggers an immediate “I can't.” In the episode, Lisa applies it to producing ten videos that each reach 100,000 views within 30 days.
Core principles
- 01A fuzzy target cannot produce an honest plan
- 02Excuses hide costs that can be named
- 03Every goal implies trade-offs in time, money, and attention
- 04Declining a goal after seeing its true cost is a valid decision
How to run it
- 1
Crystallise the target
Convert the aspiration into an observable result with a number, output, and deadline. Define how you will know whether it happened.
Pro tip Use controllable output metrics alongside outcome metrics.
Watch out A metric can be precise yet still fail to represent the real goal.
- 2
Decompose the work
Break the target into the outputs and capabilities required to pursue it. Estimate what must happen first and what depends on it.
Watch out Do not assume an outcome such as views is fully controllable.
- 3
Price the trade-offs
List the time, money, attention, and personal sacrifices the plan would consume. Get specific about what would be cancelled, reduced, learned, or purchased.
Pro tip Describe the weekly life the plan creates.
Watch out Do not casually sacrifice health or key relationships for an arbitrary metric.
- 4
Make the life decision
Ask whether you willingly choose the life implied by those costs. Commit if the trade-offs are acceptable; otherwise revise or release the goal.
Pro tip Celebrate an informed no as clarity, not defeat.
- 5
Convert the yes into action
Schedule the first required output and assign resources to it. Review assumptions as evidence arrives rather than treating the first plan as fixed.
Pro tip Start with the cheapest test of the hardest assumption.
In the wild
Lisa defines a target of ten videos reaching 100,000 views within 30 days, then asks what making the videos would require. She names possible costs such as cancelling date night, seeing friends less, or redirecting daily spending to an editor before asking whether she wants those trade-offs.
→ The goal becomes an explicit choice between the target and the life required to pursue it.
Common mistakes
Keeping the goal fuzzy
“Empower people” cannot reveal the required work or show when the goal has been reached.
Treating every cost as mandatory
The first list of sacrifices is a planning hypothesis; alternatives should still be tested.
Beating yourself up for declining
Rejecting a goal after understanding its lifestyle cost is an informed choice, not proof of inadequacy.
Is it for you?
Best for
People evaluating an ambitious goal before committing substantial time, money, or personal sacrifice.
Not ideal for
Goals dominated by uncontrollable outcomes unless they can be reframed around controllable inputs and experiments.
From the transcript
“a fuzzy Target is hard to hit so make that Target super freaking crystal clear”
“what Tom and I do is we play the game no [ __ ] what would it take”
“you've assessed it you said that's not the life you want and that should be celebrated”
From the episode
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