Struggle-Well Project Filter
Choose work whose daily process remains worthwhile even when the outcome fails
- Difficulty
- Easy
- Time to result
- ~days to results
- Steps
- 5
- Confidence
- 98%
Reverse the usual fantasy question about what you would do if failure were impossible. Assume instead that failure is likely, because struggle can be guaranteed while success cannot. Picture the project's normal difficult days: the work itself, the people around it, the capabilities practiced, and the purpose served. Ask whether you would still love or value that daily process if the hoped-for outcome never arrived. Prefer projects where the struggle builds useful skills, relationships, meaning, or contribution, so the journey remains worthwhile under an unsuccessful result. Reject opportunities whose only redeeming feature is the payoff. Apply the filter honestly to your financial position; Tom explicitly notes that his view comes after major financial success.
Origin
After spending fifteen years in business to fund storytelling, Tom replaced the question about guaranteed success with a filter that assumes failure and asks whether the daily struggle is still worth loving.
Core principles
- 01Struggle is more predictable than success
- 02A project should be judged by its process as well as its upside
- 03Meaning protects the journey from an empty outcome chase
- 04Financial security can change how aggressively the filter is applied
How to run it
- 1
Assume failure
Evaluate the project as if the desired commercial or status outcome will not arrive.
Pro tip Remove the exit valuation or applause from the thought experiment.
Watch out Failure is not certain, but pretending it is impossible distorts selection.
- 2
Simulate the hard days
Describe the recurring tasks, setbacks, and environment you would experience while pursuing it.
Pro tip Use an ordinary Tuesday rather than the launch celebration.
- 3
Inventory process returns
List the meaning, skills, relationships, and contribution produced during the attempt itself.
Watch out Do not count rewards that only exist after success.
- 4
Test daily willingness
Ask whether you would willingly keep doing and loving the work while the venture was failing.
Pro tip Distinguish enjoying the process from enjoying every moment.
- 5
Choose or reject
Select projects whose process remains worthwhile and reject those dependent entirely on the outcome.
Pro tip Re-run the filter when the daily reality materially changes.
Watch out Account for financial constraints before privileging meaning alone.
In the wild
Tom designed Impact Theory around storytelling and empowerment because those were activities he wanted to pursue even under failure. The work itself aligned with the impact he wanted to make rather than serving only as a route to another future career.
→ The company improved his life through its process, not only through its potential result.
Common mistakes
Testing only the dream outcome
Imagining guaranteed success hides the far more probable years of difficult process.
Ignoring financial context
A person without security may need a different sequence than someone applying the filter after a major exit.
Is it for you?
Best for
People choosing among ventures, careers, or creative projects with high failure rates.
Not ideal for
Short necessary tasks whose value lies entirely in enabling a larger meaningful commitment.
From the transcript
“I can guarantee you're going to struggle, but I cannot guarantee you'll be successful. And so, you better struggle well.”
“What would I do and love every day even if I were failing?”
“Uh so, that has improved my life immeasurably, but do keep in mind I'm saying that after having the gigantic financial success.”
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